Monday, January 3, 2011

Tolerant

 Tolerance, one wide, the second is content. Tolerance, easier said than done.
Wide, in addition to lenient to others, but also has wide-pending; capacity, in addition to the fault tolerant and forgiving people, but also to accommodate and appreciate the success of others.
said first width.
more tolerant of others put it plainly, that is, to others a bit better. people will make mistakes, or said something wrong, or screws up something, you have to tolerant treatment, even if the error or mistake to hurt you, if not deliberate, if not substantive, serious injury, you do not mind, do not personally. because of negligence and the injury has occurred, all irreversible, and regret was that he had blue intestines, you again baseless rumor or innuendo, does not help, others useless, has no interest in, why bother?
wide to be ourselves, but that is nice to yourself. This is not a good thing Do not condone it means that too demanding. can not do something, do not have to reach the height of force; do wrong if they do something wrong, do not scold yourself stupid, do not eat for three days without sleep for two days, Come to think about it, to sum up, start all over again, after careful, the road twists and turns though, the future is still bright.
Some people can not be tolerant of others, then, these people still can not integrate into the collective. These people, who collectively unit activities, ignoring not participate; where things acquaintances colleagues, I do not know nobody knows not show up. In his eyes, others in addition to defects is wrong, a mess, is nothing. you have to nice to him, but he doubts You ulterior motive. He despises all people, all the people despise him.
people who can not be tolerant of others, but also wary of the other people run everywhere and framed. in his eyes, as if all acts are directed themselves, not the run is framed, always automatic condemnation. So He is wary of all the people, and all the people he met in a circle around the circle.
Some people can not be lenient to be had, then these people always fare well. little bit small, he can moan and groan year and a half, and misunderstood, he may soon quit first thought; regarding the flow, he found social injustice is too dark. depressed for a long time, and just think, is more refreshing than dead . such a person, a group of black eyes, a cloudy mind, live life, does not pay ah.
say Yung.
fault tolerant and forgiving others is not difficult, the difficulty is tolerance and appreciation of other people's success. < br> side there is a case in point. A leader said: so and so who is a driver, a man working on his family, his wife did not work, but also raising two children, then what? implication in the car on the driver get the money. whether the truck eating car drivers temporarily to mention the mind alone to measure the leadership, that is absolutely not tolerate other people's success, although the family did not starve to death far not really successful, but the leaders still feel uncomfortable. saying goes is a generous capacity, this is probably the excesses in no.
not only tolerance, but also enjoy other people's success if, it reached a high state of tolerance. it needs good vision , an open mind, a lively character, the right expression. Some people earn more than you, it was around beautiful women around, it was not singing out of tune, some posts do not envy the red fluttering hh do not get mad, bulging slap smile, one to two opinions as friends.
This is why high level. it is not difficult to do.

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